You're not lazy. You're not hiding. You're making the effort… but it's not landing. Women glance right past you. Messages go unread. Dates feel more like job interviews than connection.

And if you’re honest, you’re probably in one of these camps:

1. You are having trouble approaching or getting matches. You freeze up. You stall every time you see an attractive woman you are interested in. Or.. your dating profile sits untouched for days. Swipe after swipe, no matches. You reread your message five times before sending it, and still hear nothing back.

2. You get her number, but then she ghosts. You get her number, but the texts feel flat. You ask her out, and she says "maybe." Then she ghosts. You check your phone every hour hoping she replied , but nothing.

3. You go on dates, but there's no spark. You sit across from her at the table. You talk, but she keeps checking her phone. No spark. No tension. No chemistry. She gives you a polite hug at the end, says "this was nice," and you never hear from her again.

4. You settle for women who don't excite you. You go on dates, but she doesn't excite you. You walk her to her car and feel nothing. You text her back because you should, not because you want to. And you're sick of faking a smile at dinner when you'd rather be alone.

This isn't about trying harder. It's about walking into a room, locking eyes with a woman who makes your heart race.

It's about showing up differently.